#Trans friends, I was thinking about our diverse stories, and found myself wondering about the age you knew you were trans (whether you had language to describe it or not)?
I didn't know until my late 40s. Earlier, I knew I was different, but not really in what way.
When did you know?
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Apparently someone is working on a Nix-based system for configuring routers: https://www.liminix.org/
An interesting mini-documentary about still-running steam trains: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SKIoMtunQ3c
organizing, sabotage, meta?
Probably the most annoying thing in radical organizing is supposed "allies" starting to uncritically argue for buying into a status quo structure or mechanism because "it's easier".
And it's often hard to tell whether it's just naivete, or deliberate sabotage of the organizing effort.
(Thinking of the "fedi and corporations" discourse right now, but it's way more frequently applicable)
@schratze The proof is left as an exercise for the heater.
@dragon i wish they made adult play-areas. i just wanna fuck around on swings and climbing walls and also those massive indoor play-areas.
furry, pol, meta musings
Furry is such an inherently quiet but subversive community. The things we do, while fuzzy and non violent, are often inherently against the arbitrary rules that are forced on us to hierarchicalize and control us in most other spaces.
Consider the sorts of things that go on at furry conventions. You've got kids and adults alike pulling on costumes, playing camp games, sitting in piles of boxes, playing board games, etc.
These are things we are told are "childish things" that need to be put away when we become adults. But these are not things that only children enjoy, which is why we do them. Nor are they things that a person with adult experience would reason lead to some harm or another. They are labeled 'childish' -- with the implication that it is wrong for adults to do them -- because the systems that would control us can't resist any opportunity to draw arbitrary lines and demonstrate what happens to people who step over them.
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Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.