There is passing privilege, but there is also the privilege of not having to pass, it’s way more nuanced than black and white passing bad or passing good
Passing is neither the end all be all of being trans, nor is it simply something you can ignore and trivialize, it’s an important mechanic of the trans experience and the way you deal with the concept is related to your geographical, socio-political and socio-economic realities
Yes maybe passing is “bullshit” if you’re a middle class tech workers in a progressive European Capital, but it absolutely is life or death in regressive countries where being trans is illegal and may result in a death penalty
Passing is like an unequally distributed social lubricant that like conventional beauty can become an obsession to the detriment of your life quality, but it’s also a tool of survival, and I feel most takes on the morality of passing really are way too personal and don’t generalize in the slightest
And like, I understand *why* the fork exists, but it doesn't change that this is a completely non-viable requirement that's keeping me from even trying to use Qt with Node...
re: Told to remove accessibility feature.
@JohannaMakesGames I frequently adjust the volume settings of specific parts of the audio to prevent headaches from certain sound (patterns). Honestly if a game didn't let me do this, I would likely stop playing the game.
re: overanalysing a querdenker/cultist pamphlet
@elilla "this is what I think we're living: *no one* likes the lives tech civ made for us"
Out of curiosity, could you share more thoughts/elaboration on that?
(I think I know what you mean but it sounds like there's more insights there so I'd rather ask and listen :P)
- Patricia, you ancient programmer, how does one get good at programming, please share your wisdom.
*thinks*
Well, you write a lot of bad code, like a hole shitton of bad code, then you maintain it for a few years and then you look at it again and say holy shit, and that’s when you know you’ve gotten better. Rinse and repeat for ever.
Today's screams brought to you by Omnivore (open source) giving its entire hosted userbase two weeks to get their data out before they exuberantly drown themselves in the service of an Andreessen Horowitz-funded AI voice company co-founded by a Palantir person.
https://blog.omnivore.app/p/omnivore-is-joining-elevenlabs
(The two weeks' notice went to my spam folder, so I'm grateful someone mentioned it here and I happened to see it.)
@kissane For what it's worth, if this ends up turning into a new coop (judging from various of the other comments), I'd be interested in joining - I have experience with wrangling low-cost hosting setups (and reliability on a shoestring budget, basically), and can do sysadmin work, though I am somewhat limited in scheduling.
@ifixcoinops (And in the rare case that it doesn't, I can usually find a new purpose or home for the old thing anyway)
@ifixcoinops I imagine that that's going to be something that's different for different folks; I don't tend to have a lot of choice paralysis issues because I tend to follow a heuristic that I've picked up from elsewhere: buy the cheapest option that looks acceptable, it'll probably be fine, and if it turns out not to be fine, that means that I'm far enough into the hobby to get something better! Works a lot better when you don't quite know yet what's going to stick (in the absence of better options like hobby exchange schemes).
It's very rare for something to not suffice on the first try.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.