Watching a series and the characters are having a "first date" and its in a fancy restaurant wearing fancy clothes and meanwhile my preferred dates are like
Have a chat while
- riding public transport together
- walking through a park
and if that was a positive experience go to someones home, get comfortable on sofa or bed, talk about whatever and slowly move closer to one another if it continues to be a positive experience
I don't get cis hetero dates at all tbh
authoritarian trope: someone will always rule
it's a crucial component in #marxism (and most "socialist" ideologies in the authoritarian sense) as well as the thesis of capital concentration.
competition would supposedly automatically lead to concentration of wealth (which they see as objective and conflate with power) in the hands of the few, because they assume economies of scale are essentially limitless and centralized control had no significant costs.
authoritarian trope: someone will always rule
it is also quite central to #fascism, of course. it's the whole Carl Schmitt shit. and if you spend some time listening to fascists, you will notice that one of their core beliefs is "everyone else is (secretly) either just as fascist as us, or extremely naive".
this is why they are so obsessed with linking everything to bolshevism, islamism etc. because for them, those reflect their own love of power and violence, giving them justification.
authoritarian trope: someone will always rule
here's an extremely common thought terminating cliché you'll find everywhere: "someone's always gonna rule, so it should be X"
this presupposes the impossibility of freedom, to shoehorn in some supposedly lesser evil.
this obviously reflects how (state) #democracy works: you vote for a candidate to rule, the option of no rulers just is not present, and it would be unclear what such an option existing and winning would even mean.
@wormerama That is disappointing to hear :(
Thanks for your efforts!
@smveerman Moet je je voorstellen hoe hard de text-to-speech van de Sprintervloot daarover gaat struikelen. Het gaat met 's-Hertogenbosch al nauwelijks goed. Misschien maar beter zo :)
@wormerama A thing to be aware of: I don't know for sure whether this is a problem everywhere, but a lot of commercially grown supposedly-pollinator-friendly plants here are contaminated with (sometimes illegal) pesticides that can actively harm the insect population.
A Dutch ecology association recommends to plant certified pesticide-free plants only, or if that is not viable, to prefer natural growth of 'weeds' over actively planting.
So any request to a council should probably be accommodated by a specific request for plants that are pesticide-free according to the locally available certifications.
So, Iceland's publishing industry has a bit of a dark side that people don't like to talk about with foreigners. It's ingrained in us to pretend that everything is fine to outsiders
But we effectively have a duopoly that puts some effort into safeguarding their unfair market position.
Unpacking the dishwasher and then making my bed with one hand.. because I'm holding a bag of oats in my other hand.
Why? Because I have adhd and got distracted before making breakfast, so I've been carrying oats around the house for the last 20 minutes without noticing.
“PyCon has all these workshops on how to get into open source, but it doesn’t have any on how to get out”
(Followed by a mix of laughter and knowing groans)
This is pretty brutal https://how-i-experience-web-today.com
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.