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@thibaultmol ... one day I hope to encounter a Firefox contributor who wants to do a hands-on debugging session because I'm pretty sure by this point that my usage patterns are revealing several hard-to-reproduce browser bugs

@thibaultmol (Usually manifesting as one window suddenly failing to redraw unless I constantly minimize and restore it, or one of my extensions suddenly breaking, or an endless Firefox-rendered spinner showing when I try to load a page and the relevant process is unreachable, or...)

@thibaultmol Tabs. Many tabs. And a roughly daily forced restart of my browser because the IPC collapses under the weight of my tabs

talking to people outside a furry con: “The weather's awful, isn't it? Did you watch the big game last night?"

talking to people at a furry con: “The lifts are awful aren't they? Yeah, I waited 20 minutes for one last night”

Mijn sportschoenen trokken krom en krompen, nadat ik per ongeluk de wasmachine op drogen had gezet. Nu wil ik ze opnieuw kopen, want ze waren fantastisch, maar zijn ze nergens ter wereld meer verkrijgbaar.
Salomon S/Lab Sense 8 SG (Soft Ground) - maat 42. Wie ze kan vinden, mag mij tippen!

@crash I would say that I'm interested in both, mainly because I'm not sure that it *can* be made more sustainable in this model, from what I've seen so far. I would certainly be open to solutions in that area, but I'm not holding my breath, basically

@crash I would agree in an idealized sense, but in practice people come in with preconceived notions based on past interactions with entirely different groups and cultural norms, and often it isn't all that easy to show why something works that way, even if it seems obvious to the people embedded into that community...

Past experiences can significantly color how a person observes things that they see in front of them, and which aspects of it they do or don't perceive, even if that isn't a conscious process. This problem gets worse the more your community deviates from widespread social norms

@crash I try to do the same, but I've never seen this actually be sustainable in the long term :/ Just gradually burning out the people doing this, especially on hotly debated topics

@crash (But I have no idea what that something might look like exactly)

@crash I think that part of the problem with that approach is exactly that it is easy for the new perspective to drown in books worth of recycled discussion, because the newcomer has no idea what has already been discussed... I would like to see something more sustainable, that scopes the conversation to those new perspectives specifically

one thing glaringly missing from most leftist, including trans takes on fatphobia and fat activism is the barrier to care many trans people face due to unnecessary BMI limits on gender affirming surgeries.

🚨 URGENT: HOUSING 🚨

looking for a space in boston/greater boston area. im currently planning on applying for SSDI due to my leg

about me: im a 34 year old, jewish trans man, trained in barista work and proofreading/editing. im quiet and pretty insular

boosts and well wishes appreciated :boost_ok:

#mutualaid #MutualAidRequest #transcrowdfund #help #housing #boston

valentine's day joke 

Polycule expansion day?

tangent, religion 

... is this literally the reason that the Bible, Quran, etc. exist?

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I feel like one of the most fundamental problems of open-access (including online) communities is the asymmetry of policymaking discussions.

If you have made a well-considered but unintuitive policy decision, and you have already done all the work of reasoning through the implications, an influx of new people will forever keep trying to recycle discussions that you've already had and are already tired of.

But the people newly coming in have never had this discussion before, and are not familiar with the rationale! And even if they are willing to 'take the culture as it is' and learn it gradually over time, it's very difficult to know what is expected of you without having access to the background.

And so you end up with the same discussions and arguments being rehashed over and over again, eventually burning out the people doing the policymaking and causing the whole thing to fall apart.

And so far, I have not seen any credible mitigations for this problem, because "read the manual before doing anything" is an unreasonable ask and so is "you will just have to accept that those are the rules", in the general case.

@scottjenson That is not what I said. What I said is that *demanding* calm and rational is a bad thing, when talking about consent violations. It is tone policing that fails to acknowledge the emotional impact that this sort of thing has on vulnerable people.

@scottjenson Someone is violating other people's consent. *Of course* that is going to result in emotional personal responses. I find it absurd to demand a 'calm, rational discussion' under those circumstances.

Today on Valentines' Day, I'm calling for research into teleportation to finally end the tyrannical, transphobic reign of Distance and allow for the construction of a truly world-spanning trans polycule.

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