One of the things I think is interesting about cultural change is that (and I totally recognize that globally, this is still a transitional thing, still contested) in my social circles, normative entitlement is waning.
By which I mean, people who are in roles traditionally associated with privilege are slowly losing their grip on entitlement.
And by that I mean, they are slowly losing the absolute certainty that everything is their business. To question, to comment on, to give knowing side glances to their friends about, to post on Nextdoor about, to presume they know, or ought to know, other people's business.
It certainly is still contested, and a lot of white, privileged people still do performative meltdowns and performative incompetence to sidestep having to be responsible to us, the marginalized, the queer, the deviant, the heretical, the different.
But their grip is slipping, and I celebrate every time I get a friend to see the sham of privilege and entitlement and start doing the work to decolonize themselves.
re: death, politics
Whoever it was that proposed last night to temporarily suspend the "do not speak ill of the dead" rule in honor of Kissinger, I think your proposal has been accepted
re: health advice
@hosford42@techhub.social Then yeah, I would definitely strongly recommend seeing a doctor if that is an option available to you (they will likely also do an oxygen saturation test, as pretty much the first thing).
Given that I'm not a doctor, there's probably not much more I can contribute here, sorry :( Besides the standard advice of "take rest, don't force yourself to 'work through it'", that is...
I do hope you will find a speedy recovery!
In honor of #HenryKissinger, the traditional rule to not speak ill of the dead is hereby suspended for the next 10 days.
re: health advice
@hosford42@techhub.social Oof :(
The test that I got a while ago from a doctor for "do I need to show up for a check-up" was basically "can you walk a single flight of stairs without being out of breath?" - if not, I would have to schedule a doctor's visit to assess whether treatment was needed.
I don't know if that metric still applies, but absent any better information, it seems like a good place to start.
health advice
@hosford42@techhub.social Pulse oximeter? They generally cost anywhere between "a few bucks" and $20 depending on where you are, where you buy it from, and how fast you need it.
If possible, I would recommend getting a COVID test as well - there are many ways in which it can manifest it, and it doesn't necessarily need to manifest as a lowered blood oxygen level.
friendly reminder to add alt text to your images so the visually impaired can also celebrate kissinger's death
wow a Rolling Stone gathers no moss and pulls no punches
https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-news/henry-kissinger-war-criminal-dead-1234804748/
(archive link in case they're forced to soften/edit it: https://web.archive.org/web/20231130015817/https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-news/henry-kissinger-war-criminal-dead-1234804748/)
Can we please all agree that COP is now just an excuse for rich bastards and world leaders to fly somewhere to sit around tables and agree that the climate is fucked, sign a bunch of inconsequential paperwork that nobody takes seriously, promise to do better, then fly back home to carry on business as normal? #COP28
I wish there was a "digital divide simulator" which takes your existing computer and makes it work slightly less well, each click/response takes a bit longer, each application loads more slowly, each tab opened gradually slows down the machine, newer apps (Slack) don't work at all. Wifi iffy.
I'm using a machine exactly like this, and even being totally savvy and being able to make good choices, it's still wild having to suddenly be this parsimonious and economical with my tech use. Educational
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