@baldur If I got a euro for every time I had to tell someone "{fedi,Matrix} is not a startup, there are literally only downsides to scaling fast"...
You’ll note that all of the discourse around Mastodon and Fediverse adoption now is about it “challenging” or “taking over” from Twitter.
This is yet another instance of pop culture taking over the discourse. Pop culture has to have a winner. It’s always a competition. Improvement or serving the end user is always secondary to winning out in a popularity contest.
Be extremely skeptical of any advice that is framed by the pop culture leaderboard. It’s likely to be toxic in the long run.
"The fediverse needs critical mass to survive!"
I've been here since 2017. Sometimes it's been a quiet place. Sometimes it's fast-paced. But it's had enough critical mass for survival for a long while.
Now what it needs it to become a _better_ place, not bigger.
Safer, nicer, friendlier, more welcoming to those at risk. A hasty push for more "critical mass" is likely to make these communities more aggressive, less forgiving, and less sustainable in the long term.
The people in the neighborhood wanted a bridge over the creek. The city had no funding for #PedestrianInfrastructure for something like that. But they did get an #art grant, so they hired an artist to create an art installation that would span the creek that people could walk on. I frequently walk my dogs along this creek and yes, over the bridge sometimes.
https://www.dezeen.com/2021/08/06/drift-pedestrian-bridge-fort-worth-texas-volkan-alkanoglu/
the reason you don't talk to fascists is because You Are Not Immune To Propaganda
@starfall additional two cents from someone that used to hang out with fascists: you might Think you're Immune To Propaganda. you'll sit in two spaces, and know that you say slurs to fit in with one crowd and know to never say them around the other crowd. you'll know How It Works and think nothing they say is actually slipping into what you think and do
and then you'll spend a disproportionate amount of time later after the fact, untangling a lot of shit you were told that you didn't attribute to a group you knew not to trust, that you didn't know was a dogwhistle, that you thought was Just A Meme but was actually a weird channer way of doing a stereotype joke
(and to a hypothetical reader, if you're one of these ex-channer/ex-cryptofash/ex-all-my-friends-were-nazis-at-one-point-and-i-haven't-examined-that types, this is a starting point for a lot of work ahead of you.)
the reason you don't talk to fascists is because You Are Not Immune To Propaganda
if i had a functional blog i would be writing a longer post about this, so here's the short version
people who share privileges can and should apply social pressure against bigotry as a one-off thing - i'm thinking of a study of the effectiveness of calling people on their shit while having a cis white guy pfp vs. not
but you will find yourself changing at least as much as the people you hang out with on a regular basis. they won't change at all if you don't have real social ties for them to give a shit about you challenging them on things
if i'm finding casual ableism creeping into my vocabulary from hanging out with my anticapitalist but not explicitly leftist gamer buddies, what more would hanging out with fascists do to warp my norms
@Dee "all of it"
"Why are so many more kids trans now?"
@SleepyCatten Some people are "worried" because it looks like more and more kids are becoming trans and/or non-binary nowadays. But the simple answer is: it used to be much more repressed. The same thing happened when schools stopped forcing kids to write with their right hand. "Suddenly" more and more kids were lefthanded. But eventually it hit a plateau at 9-10%. It's not that there weren't any lefthanded kids before - they were forced into invisibility.
re: meta, FediBlock
@kescher Wasn't familiar with that one but yeah, that looks to be about the size of it
re: meta, FediBlock, long
@untitaker@treehouse.systems https://mew.toot.cat/mw/Qoto.org does seem to exist, at least, but it's not complete
emigration advice, please boost
I’m looking to leave my country (Italy, i live approximately in the middle), my current target is germany, currently the main issue for me is figuring out how I’m supposed to move my stuff from here to there, as moving companies from anywhere i know are extremely shady and usually mishandle things, the amount of stuff i need to move isn’t too large (it’s mostly a subset of the contents of 1 room), probably would fit in a regular car. Does anyone know what sort of service I could use as an alternate
Zijn jullie al helemaal klaar voor #Whamageddon?
Dit zijn de spelregels:
1) WHAM's Christmas klassieker; "Last Christmas" niét horen!
2) we beginnen 01/12 en spelen door tot 24/12 🎄
3) Enkel de originele versie telt mee. Geniet van alle mogelijke covers en remixen
4) zodra je de originele 'Last Christmas' hoort ben je VERLOREN en post je je #whamageddon 💣
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.