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i feel like the silver lining for how terrible masculinity influencers are is that if you are masculine you basically have a blank slate to get weird with it, if you want. no one is gonna get mad at you for starting from scratch

Gotta say - it’s hard to remember this, but it’s a good goal to keep in mind kolektiva.social/@sidereal/113

urinary health, schools 

It occurs to me that I and many many others grew up being told in school to "try to hold it in until after class" when we needed to take a piss, and yet every single medical professional I've spoken to in this kidney transplantation process has told me that doing so is bad for your kidneys, even for healthy people.

Same story for toilets in public spaces. Often simply not available (whether non-existent or too expensive or too dirty) and the response to criticism about this is to "just hold it in until you get home".

Why exactly are we teaching people to "hold it in" if we *know* that doing so is bad for you?

Do you ever spot technical inaccuracies in your dreams, while you're still in the dreams?

Last night I booted windows 95 off an 8" floppy disk and saw a nuclear explosion with only a single flash, and in both cases I was like "no, that's not right. You can't do that"

on Americaposting, @ fellow non-Americans 

also, while I'm at it, dear fellow non-Americans:

I understand that you, too, are full of dread, but please evaluate earnestly for yourselves what you actually get out of constantly engaging with American politics and posting through it on here

is doing so actually something that benefits you? is getting constant live updates on this stuff healthy for you?

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request for cwing, my personal view of constantly reading about America 

it doesn't make me a better artist or friend, I don't learn anything new, and I can't do anything about or with the things I do learn

reading about America, its politics, its worst people, all it does is fill me with dread, and for what? to what benefit?

please cw your Americaposting

For the #StarTrek fans, particularly those who listen to shows from the Roddenberry Podcast Network. I'm curious who would be interested in a podcast called Trek After Dark, where a cohost and me explore Star Trek from the perspective of a blind person and piece together episodes without visuals. Occasionally discuss what the episode does or says about disability/neurodivergence/other small communities when relevant? I'm still nailing things down but that's a rough idea and I'm trying to gage interest.
I'm also looking for RPN's contact info in the hopes that maybe I can discuss this with them.
#Disability #Neurodivergent #Podcast

@lilyvanilla We've had quite good results with flaxseed as well, as long as we boil it in a little bit of water first until it becomes goopy

Spent the last 6 hours trying to get a hello world equivalent gui window with a button on rust under windows.

This task which one might think is simple ended up taking literal hours and still hasn't been achieved because: the tutorials for gtk on windows and rust suggest putting msys2 bin directory on the path. This causes rust to fail to build correctly because it uses the wrong gcc and linkers.
Afterwards I managed it by using the appropriate environment variables.
But then I found out the dynamically linked libarries weren't found. I tried getting a way to copy them but it turned out to be too much work so I just moved the executable to the same dir.
Only to find out that gtk4 has no accessibility on Windows. Not bad accessibility, not accessibility that needs to be turned on. No. Accessibility. At all.
So then I decided to try Qt, which wants me to create an account to get an installer. Absolute no.
Got the 1.5gb sources and trying now to get an off-line installer out of it.

To get a fucking window with a button in it.

I don't think it's unreasonable for me to say this state of affairs is complete bullshit, and that most people with a normal level of motivation would have found plenty of opportunities to have given up. I still might.

(Not using NWG because tying the data to the GUI elements is non-trivial, it seems to require copying a lot and using twice the memory.)

#a11y #rust #gui #windows

I'm attending Arisia science-fiction convention this weekend. THEY HAVE A MASK MANDATE. And it has completely reversed the usual ratio: 95% of people masking, majority N95 or KN95, only about 5% of people maskless.

It's so pleasant and relaxing to see most people masked again.

#YallMasking

today on twitter: someone leaked the entirety of the plankton movie

“alright, that’s enough fedi for today”

*closes laptop fedi*

*opens phone fedi*

i bought unripe bananas and my bf told me that i could put them next to carrots and they'd catch up. and it worked! but they sapped all life out of those carrots. like literally. what kind of a soul exchange ritual have i just committed? how am i gonna answer for that after my death

In #spoonieTown there are libraries with wide bay windows and cushions, and a little table nearby where one can nap, read, and drink tea whilst looking over the quiet gardens.

#spoonieTown has lil garden plots all over the place where you can just grab and nibble on a fresh veg as you walk by.

It turns out the reason our hybrid heat pump wasn't hybriding was that the installer *never connected* the gas boiler to the control bus. The color coded and keyed connector is just flopping around behind the panel.

advice, re: circumcision, body autonomy, sexual issues, genitals 

@mynameistillian For what it's worth, there are various creams and lubricants available that 'dull' the sensitivity to deal with this kind of problem, usually sold as ways to 'prolong ejaculation' and such

@bananas This is about 'organized' FOSS projects, not about personal projects.

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