@jonty@chaos.social It often feels like there's a sort of bell curve where the most conflict occurs in the massive communities (because it's impossible to maintain social cohesion) and the tiny communities (because every disagreement feels like a mortal threat to the community's continued existence) and there's just one fairly small range of 'community size' where things can actually be stable, big enough to weather some broken ties but not so big that ties start breaking due to scale alone
@reinderdijkhuis I submitted ten of my best puns to a pun contest, knowing that one of them would win. But no pun in ten did.
@freakazoid Most of my experience in terms of 'garbage' is Steam (which doesn't seem to have the most basic dependency management functionality...) but if Nexus Mods' site is any indication, then I don't expect their mod manager to be any better, no
@Riedler I find it kind of baffling that this doesn't really seem to exist, to be honest
i'm not citing shit and i'm not bringing receipts but we have the best in-character bot-like-but-not-bot accounts in the fediverse who will absolutely break character to share love and comfort when times are particularly hard. that's community shit right there. fuckin love it. hell yeah, y'all anonymous folk runnin those accounts. much love.
@shoofle Well, that's a familiar feeling for sure...
i sent this devon price piece to a friend who has expressed stuff like this (i think archive .is is back up if you don't substack)
Dr. Devon Price - How Do I Become Less Obedient?
https://substack.com/@drdevonprice/p-137545860
I know that for anarchists and sociologists society gets in everywhere, but the tow lot is a very interesting study.
Nearly everyone there is mad as hell because they have to pay for a service they didn't want. Is the tow lot's clerk, who has to tell people about their fines and fees, and who grants or refuses access to the vehicle, a cop? Or is it just a necessary function to make sure the tow workers are paid for clearing private property left in the public way?
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Mastodon moment, I suppose.
@welshpixie @FediThing Yeah, that seems like a close-to-ideal solution to me - just making it something like "Don't worry too much about what you enter here, we just want to make sure you're not an automated signup", I expect that'll address most of the issue
@FediThing I think that would mostly resolve the problem for users, though I suspect that this would be difficult for instance moderators to deal with, due to the lack of data on which to make a decision; at least in my personal experience even a short message helps a lot in determining legitimacy.
It could still work as a way to *delay* spammers, but I'd be hesitant to recommend it as The Solution(tm), so to say.
@FediThing It can be, depending on the circumstances. I'm especially thinking of folks with social anxiety, RSD, etc. here, for whom it can already be very difficult to take the step of joining any kind of social community.
@FediThing I guess it mostly boils down to "people have become accustomed to a lack of stable social environment and so you need to make a point of subverting that expectation"
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