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Eine autistische Person toleriert ständig Dinge, die sie stören.
Hin und wieder, ist das Maß voll und es kommt zum Nervenzusammenbruch (manchmal inkl Wutausbruch).
Ironischerweise werden wir dann deshalb als "schwierig" eingestuft.
Es ist im wahrsten Sinne des Wortes Wahnsinn, was Autistinnen leisten. Trotzdem gelten wir als unwillig, Kompromisse einzugehen oder uns anzupassen.
Obwohl wir die meiste Zeit unseres Lebens genau das tun .. #AuDHS #autismus #neurodivergenz

reference to abusers in the abstract 

@fortyseven IMO the more telling part is how they say they've "apologized" but still don't actually take responsibility; trying to claim that actually the responsible party is the one who reported them, and clearly not looking to repair harm but just to make the problems go away.

This is such a common pattern in abusers, trying to turn the blame on the person holding them to account through a non-apology ("I did everything and you're still complaining, you're the unreasonable one!"), and I wish it was more widely recognized.

Looking at a neat job listing and AGAIN I am caught off guard by the unparalleled chrome extension: Cloud-to-Butt Plus.

I have had this extension for, I believe, over a decade, from before I ever considered being in tech. It CONSTANTLY gets me.

It used to do one thing: change the word "cloud" to the word "butt". These days it does two things: also the words "the cloud" to the words "my butt".

Unparalleled usefulness and excellence.

To people who feel like there aren't many people on mastodon/fediverse, please actually try to be social. So often I see "there's nobody here, i'm going to bsky/threads/whatever" and then when I look at the account's profile on the home server (to make sure I can see all posts and replies), I almost always see very few posts in recent past and even fewer replies. The Fediverse's culture (and mastodon's software) is built around more traditional social networking, like we used to do before algos.

The bug is that they handle state incorrectly by the way, and one control system has a toggle whether the other has an explicit open/close, and it does not have a transition state, according to the system it is always either open or closed, and anyone who has ever fixed someone else's bad state management probably knows *exactly* where this is going

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You really should not let me near tech that you would like to keep working

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Got the automatic curtain control system in the hospital in an invalid state within 2 minutes of touching it, because of course I did

re: health, kidney disease, funny 

@bananas Oh I miss it a lot, they just told me to reduce my salt and there was a good reason for it and therefore I did. I'm not sure they expected me to follow the advice that rigorously, to the point of inventing a salt-less bread recipe

health, kidney disease, funny 

An abbreviated review of my kidney patient career so far: had 240/something blood pressure with no real symptoms besides a headache and slightly blurry vision (which quickly recovered), walked merrily into the ICU to the astonishment of the nurses (and walked out again a day later), continued living a mostly normal life without dialisys on 8-10% remaining kidney function (ie. end-stage kidney failure) and no meaningful deterioriation over that timespan, managed to reduce salt in my diet so much that the sodium levels in my blood were dangerously low (again with no meaningful symptoms), learned to detect high potassium levels by feel, which once again baffled medical people, and was told today by a nurse that I am the second person they've ever had to pick up for a check-up on foot rather than in a bed, despite having worked there for a while.

I swear, at some point I'm surely going to become a medical research subject

@smveerman with Lelylijn and Nedersaksenlijn also having been killed this government sure seems to hate trains :/

@marlies @smveerman I'm pretty sure they do, and that would make sense politically, so not much of a surprise unfortunately 😐

The Dutch government and the province of Limburg have decided that, with the investment budget originally meant for the Hasselt - Maastricht tramline the following actions will be taken:
* Demolishing the railway bridge across the Maas in Maastricht.
* Improve railroad crossing safety between Maastricht and Eijsden for a second Maastricht - Liège service, making that half hourly.
* Buying unused land from ProRail around Maastricht to be used as construction grounds.
* Building a new bicycle bridge across the Maas near the location of the old railway bridge, but only when the demolition of the railway bridge is approved before 2027.

So, that's it then. A possible train service between Maastricht and Flemish Limburg will now forever not be possible.

Source: MIRT Brief Najaar 2024.

The age-old question: "Do I hate MY job or do I just hate having to have A Job?"

Who's interested in being part of a chill "reply when you can" penpal club?

No deadlines unless you want to set yourself one (which is totally legit).

No minimum requirement (send a postcard with a doodle).

It will mean sharing a physical mailing address, but it doesn't have to be your house - maybe a local coffee shop or friend is willing to be your address.

I can make a Signal group for folks who don't want to share here.

[EDIT: ask for my address!]

Tag #FediPenPals :boost_requested:

So I am in a local-ish book circle with friends here in Sweden, we are reading kind, queer, feel-goody sff mainly. It'll be my time to pick a book in a few months, and I am thinking maybe A Master of Djinn by P. Djeli Clark, to tug the group out of its whiteness for a while. I'd love some suggestions for other books that loosely fill the criteria that are not set in a european-ish/western setting with white people, by poc authors, if you guys have read anything good?

#bookrecs please

I will be spending more time supporting and promoting mutual aid posts I see.

I offer no guarantees and any boosts/likes does not mean I vouch for the account. I don’t research or dig deep into these things and take them at face value.

Help however you can or see fit. With these dark times upon us I find it important to just help people without thinking, this is my mentality right now.

Much love to everybody! Stay safe, hopeful, and united!

Ableism, neurospicies, reading difficulties 

Judging someone for their inability to read and comprehend something as easily as *you* might be able to read and comprehend something is ableist.

Attacking someone for making a mistake because they mis-read something is ableist.

Expecting someone with autism to present in the same way that *your* autism (or whatever other neurospicy) presents is ableist.

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Spotify just reported record-breaking profits.

In totally unrelated news, Spotify stopped paying nearly 90% of artists on the service ANYTHING (no royalties for songs w <1k streams/year)

hollywoodreporter.com/business

hospital, covid related 

(Some background; I indicated that I would prefer for staff to wear a mask, they mentioned that they weren't sure if they could *require* it as per policy, I said "oh it doesn't have to be a requirement, a request is probably good enough" so that's what was put on the sign and it's working as expected)

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@Peetz0r It is... alright. It's definitely not as nice as the JBZ but in fairness I'm not sure any hospital is, and it's definitely also not the stereotypical unidentifiable microwaved nutrient paste that hospitals are famous for, though it *is* on a fixed schedule

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