some thoughts on fedi more generally
It's incredibly bad at supporting coherent meta-conversations, and that's not just a problem of the technology.
The model that ActivityPub implementations tend to follow for supporting group interactions, is to let groups emerge organically in an informal manner, as a natural result of the clustering of people who are similarly aligned.
That works really well for a lot of things, but not for conflict resolution *between* those organic groups, whichever they are.
Each group mostly just sees the things posted by 'their' group, and so is very likely to get only half the story of what's going on, if that; and usually through the lens of a member of their group. This means that in a conflict, both parties are operating on a wildly different view of what actually happened.
I'm not sure that you can actually fix this on a technical level, I suspect it's fundamental to this model. If you don't have explicitly defined communities "in" which something happens, there is simply no reliable way to get a complete view of all conversation around a topic within that community. There isn't even a way to convene a meeting to sort things out.
Sure, you have hashtags, and you have group accounts, but all of these are opt-in and so only make discoverable those things which are explicitly posted to them, which is usually only a small fraction of what actually happened, and not the parts that are important to understanding it.
I can't see how *anything* that's built around personal profiles/timelines foremost, would avoid this fate. It seems like a fundamental and far-reaching design error to me, something that practically guarantees unsustainable conflict, no matter how good the moderation tools.
It's also a design choice that basically every social platform since 2010 has made.
Thinking about this because any effort at communicating “this has happened to me” or “this affects me” always starts several steps forward from the moment of direct experience.
When someone tells you a thing, always listen for the effort they have already made to craft language that is accessible to you. The unsaid is still there, fresh from being cut; it’s there in the gap it has left.
When you observe language being passed between others as a third party—the overwhelming experience on social media—remember that language hasn’t been crafted with you in mind.
You are never the expert in someone else’s experience.
meta meta (followup)
So, different readers are likely to have drawn different conclusions from this post, and that's kind of the point I was trying to illustrate here. Don't just consider how it harms whatever "side" you're aligned with, also consider whether the "better" option might do the same but for someone else.
The actual problem here is that fascists have set up the scenario such that there are no obvious 'solutions' that don't end up harming *someone* in the process, and you need to recognize this and change the way you deal with conflicts like this accordingly. This is divide-and-conquer shit and you need to realize that. Whether someone did something wrong is besides the point.
Blocking people cannot be the end of this particular conversation, you all need to collectively confront the reality that there's going to be a lot more work to do here, to solve this shit, to solve the problem that led to this situation existing in the first place, and that that's going to require some difficult conversations, publicly or otherwise. Including conversations that *you*, the person reading this who is involved in the meta, need to have.
(You, personally, may already be aware of this and have been working on that. In that case, consider this post redundant.)
Is the Dell Latitude E7450 known to have severe battery longevity issues? I've owned mine for about 2 years and in that time it somehow completely fried 4 batteries. Granted, none of them were original ones but still I would think third party batts wouldn't be nearly this terrible..
At this point I'm not sure if I just got very unlucky with batteries or if my laptop is fucked. If it's the latter than this is really unsustainable and I'd start considering buying a whole different laptop..
Pls help?
meta meta
I'm not going to get involved in the "who's in the right" discussion, because I think everything worth saying there has already been said and there's nothing meaningful I can add.
The only thing I wish to add is a meta-meta consideration, as it were: be very careful in how you respond to fascists sabotaging your ability to do moderation and community defense, consider who actually gets hit by your choice in that matter, and whether that might empower fascists indirectly.
(If you're not sure what this is about, then you're probably not involved in the meta, and this comment is probably not relevant to you)
Also, FYI: *DO NOT* try to start an argument about the meta under this post, consider it read-only. I may block you if you try anyway.
As a reminder, modern standards of "cleanliness" for households were developed during a period when the wife in a family was expected to stay home and take care of the household full-time.
So if you are a single, or if you are part of a family where _both_ spouses work full time, and you just cannot seem to catch up with the household chores: Don't blame yourself! This is perfectly normal, and people and media telling you otherwise are putting pressure on you which is wholly unjustified.
Sure, households _should_ be cleaned now and then, but having them remain clean _all_ the time is an impossible standard in today's world for anyone who cannot afford outside domestic aid.
Can we acknowledge it's kinda fucked up that years of work went into Minecraft modding and it's still Microsoft's sole right to decide who can or cannot get to enjoy said mods.
And their right to profit off of all the value the modders generate without giving them a cent.
And that they charge approximately too much money for a single copy.
Oh Cards Against Humanity, I love you: https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2024/09/cards-against-humanity-sues-spacex-alleges-invasion-of-land-on-us-mexico-border/
re: food, not vegan
@Ember @mynameistillian AFAIK that's what a lot of manufacturers do, when there's enough space on the packaging (but manufacturer definitions of 'serving' are generally useless because of the issue described above...)
food, not vegan
@mynameistillian I believe this came about due to manufacturers fucking with packaging sizes to artificially reduce or increase the numbers (when visually compared to competitors' products) so now it's all specified per standardized quantity
AI grumbles
@researchfairy The universe where they personally have something to gain from claiming that to be true, I suspect
It really annoys me that the term VPN has been hijacked by companies like NordVPN, Tunnel Bear, etc. While they do use VPN tech as a core part of their product, what they're selling you is not a Virtual Private Network. Their selling you a network proxy, that provides dubious security and privacy improvements at best.
@xgranade I think I found it: https://web.archive.org/web/20121220041034/https://www.nytimes.com/2012/09/24/technology/data-centers-in-rural-washington-state-gobble-power.html
"In an attempt to erase a $210,000 penalty the utility said the company owed for overestimating its power use, Microsoft proceeded to simply waste millions of watts of electricity, records show. Then it threatened to continue burning power in what it acknowledged was an “unnecessarily wasteful” way until the fine was substantially cut, according to documents obtained by The New York Times."
@red_sky In this case yeah, but any time I see a vulnerability disclosure and it mentions "Firebase", I immediately assume "oh, ACL misconfiguration" and that guess turns out to be correct basically 100% of the time because Firebase's access control is garbage 🙃
I'm actually pleasantly surprised by Arc, in that they seem to have realized the same thing and are getting rid of Firebase entirely now
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