I'm so sick of "big men" enamored of the trappings of power & anyone impressed with them. I'm sick of the mystique of "all he had to do was wave a finger & you were dead" & that is supposed to be impressive rather than terrifying & childish. I'm sick of their entourages, and the way they stick out their lips, pout, posture, bluster. The way they use other people as decorations.
They way they lie to your face as a power play.
It's all... so embarrassing for the human animal of which I am one.
Ik wil het woord tokkie nooit meer horen | nieuws elders
https://www.doorbraak.eu/ik-wil-het-woord-tokkie-nooit-meer-horen/
I'm going to say this again. I am totally uninterested in workarounds and hacks to try bypass Google's horrible AI Overviews. They solve NOTHING. In fact, they help make the situation WORSE. 99.999% of #Google users won't know about them and/or won't use them. They reduce pressure on Google to actually fix these systems. And of course, Google can choose to block them at any time.
My recommendation is to stop thinking in terms of "techies 'tricking' Google" and start thinking in terms of the policy efforts required to make things better for ALL users. Get off the techie high horse and start thinking about people beyond our tech communities, and the impacts that Big Tech is having on them in increasingly negative ways.
@smveerman The only thing I could think of would be a weird service for Toverland's benefit, but given the atrocious last-mile coverage to that place... probably not that :/
bunq, rumour
@marlies No disagreement there, from everything I've seen so far 🙃
bunq, rumour
@marlies There are very recent reports of people getting inundated right after opening an account, so it's possible that they're just working off an append-only database of known customers, maybe?
It’s a pretty important point: if as a rail firm you provide enough accurate digital information you’ll reduce how often passengers ask staff what’s going on
And given pretty much every railway has a *staff shortage* it’s worth getting this right!
(And sure other railways have poor data quality, but at least they *try*. I’m not sure Eurostar is even trying here)
And if you do accomplice things long enough and stay committed, you eventually realize that eating this kind of shit pales in comparison to what the people you're accomplicing for are experiencing from non avccomplices every day.
So the question is, when you reach a breaking point, where do you jump? I think good people withdraw to recuperate and then return to the work. I think others let it turn them bitter and let it estrange them.
But if you are committed to being a true accomplice you must find a way to handle the challenges, handle the idea that random strangers will dislike you and distrust you for trying to support them. And be okay with that. Partly because it's just going to happen while you do the work, and partly because the supremacy depends on you getting alienated by that dynamic. So if you let it alienate you, then you are doing the work of the supremacy.
It's a real cusp. And it really defeats a lot of would be accomplices who try to use the fact of trying to do the work as an immunity against criticism or distrust.
Are you in it for your own reasons? Or do you have ulterior motives? I guess you'll find out.
2/2
I don't talk about this enough. And I do teach it when I teach antiracism and other social justice to white people or other people with culturally ingrained privilege/entitlement. But it's often a very hard earned lesson and successfully navigating it requires humility. Not just tacit humility but full note humility that is very difficult for many people to volunteer.
The lesson? It's that being an accomplice means randomly eating shit. If you do accomplice things, you will, probably frequently, experience stuff that your privilege demands retribution for, and that you must suppress that desire for doing.
It's because of trauma. The people you are accomplicing for are deeply traumatized. Your people made them that way. Constant self-regulating micro and macro aggression, perpetrated by you and your ancestors are the cause. So you literally cannot be trusted. Even if you show constant good faith through every test, even if 100% of the time you've faced adversity you've chosen the right, just path, there will be people who don't trust you and think you're the enemy, just looking at you. And despite what your privilege demands, that you make them understand you, you cannot. It would only make things worse.
1/
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
- No alt text (request) = no boost.
- Boosts OK for all boostable posts.
- DMs are open.
- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
- The devil doesn't need an advocate; no combative arguing in my mentions.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.