@ZeroEcks Ahh that explains it, I was looking on the wrong blog, thanks
@burgerdrome (Where did this happen? I can't seem to find it)
a general piece of advice, for fedi and elsewhere
Even if you're marginalized, you are probably privileged among *some* axis. And sometimes, or even often, the right decision is to just step back and *absorb* things. You don't need to have an opinion about everything. It's fine to excuse yourself from a discussion.
Follow some people who are marginalized or living a different kind of life in a way you are not familiar with. Quietly. Not commenting on their experiences or giving advice, just *absorbing* them. For months, if needed.
I promise that you'll learn things you'd never considered before, and the only thing you have to do is listen quietly, and stop yourself from responding to them. Nobody will expect you to opine on them just because you've read them.
AI and tech rant
@researchfairy Also a helpful qualifier: "Better at what exactly?" and "Better at fulfilling *whose* needs and requirements?"
And the answers to those may not be the ones they are hoping for / assuming.
AI and tech rant
"Tech always gets better" has very "evolution means life is moving toward perfection" energy
my biggest complaint about AI is we didn’t ask for it. zero popular movements took to the streets to demand AI. no one sat around kitchen tables lamenting how hard life is without AI.
what people want is health care, housing, climate change solutions, etc We sit around kitchen tables wondering how to pay for college, get loved ones the psych and addiction support they need, or help the people on our streets who need homes
honestly we didn’t need an app for everything in 2010 and we don’t need AI for everything now. all we have ever needed was to tax the rich and take care of people
@jacksonchen666 Like how it claims "without user IDs" as if that is the real privacy/anonymity problem, but if you actually look at their 'whitepaper' there's nothing except a pinky promise to prevent servers from associating conversations with individual clients/peers, so the social graph can still be mapped out
@jacksonchen666 Last time I evaluated this, it looked like snakeoil marketing; lots of big claims with very little evidence or rationale to support them, and it's a startup
(I am seriously considering just closing PR functionality on all my repos, telling people to file an issue instead, and working to find a better model of collaboration)
Like, it seems to be a widespread problem that the review and processing of PRs ends up taking up more time than it would have taken to implement the feature by oneself, which seems to defeat the point of collaboration?
"But drive-by PRs are a really important way to get new contributors involved!"
Okay, but if we're relying on an unscalable, net-labour-cost model of interaction for attracting contributors, then what does that say about the health of our communities...?
I have trouble believing there are no better and more sustainable ways to achieve collaboration
legal advice, sort of
@elilla Ran across this thing: https://abmahnbeantworter.ccc.de/ - judging from the footer, a lawyer was involved in creating this, at least
legal advice, sort of
@elilla I don't know what the current situation over there, but 'scareletters' are very common in this industry, where they will threaten you with legal action so that you will settle for an absurd amount of money, even though they never intend to take the case to court because they would lose... so check carefully whether this is actually something that requires action on your part
(I am seriously considering just closing PR functionality on all my repos, telling people to file an issue instead, and working to find a better model of collaboration)
Like, it seems to be a widespread problem that the review and processing of PRs ends up taking up more time than it would have taken to implement the feature by oneself, which seems to defeat the point of collaboration?
"But drive-by PRs are a really important way to get new contributors involved!"
Okay, but if we're relying on an unscalable, net-labour-cost model of interaction for attracting contributors, then what does that say about the health of our communities...?
I have trouble believing there are no better and more sustainable ways to achieve collaboration
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