refers to parental abuse (violence) and downplaying thereof
every now and then I will hear something along the lines of "These days kids can't even be hit without everyone making a fuss, I was hit as a child and it didn't do me any harm"
and each time, I think, actually, it did do you harm. it made you think it's fine to hit children.
Question for Mastodon Admins: are you using the `REDIS_NAMESPACE` configuration variable?
If yes, can you reply and explain why you are using it?
We will need to drop support for it, as Sidekiq no longer supports it, and I want to be certain we understand every usage to prepare a migration guide.
long, re: Why capitalism is a fundamentally violent ideology
@soop@wetdry.world Yeah, I could see that - I think that it's *possible*, but it's going to require a pretty big culture change that will take quite some time to build up. An overnight revolution isn't going to fix this.
IMO this needs to start with mutual aid (and not just one-off donations, but also more structural things), to build up alternative social support structures to keep people healthy and alive without depending on capitalist systems.
That can then serve as a starting point for a cultural change; breaking down the widespread belief that capitalism is the only way to provide for people by showing that it can be done differently (while actually doing so and supporting people in the process!), and gradually growing the movement that way.
Certainly a very slow process that involves a lot of work - but IMO a *possible* one, with many possible implementations, and that's the important part.
(I don't have strong opinions about the exact method to accomplish this; we just need to start somewhere, find something people need, and start doing that. Different people are going to have different answers to that, and that's fine. As long as it keeps moving towards the right goal.)
Long covid is lichamelijk en zit 'niet tussen de oren', toont onderzoek aan - https://nos.nl/l/2503701
Why capitalism is a fundamentally violent ideology
The ideology of capitalism is to create a social hierarchy through wealth disparity; you get to the top by having more wealth than others.
Capitalists will always try to privatize basic needs and infrastructure, because those are the most reliable way to extract wealth; you always have to buy them, whether you want to or not.
And if you satisfy those needs without buying them, police will show up to evict you for not paying rent, arrest you for "stealing" food, and so on. If you resist them, violence will be used against you, to force your hand.
This means that there is a direct line from capitalist ideology to state violence; it cannot work without that. Capitalism *must* be violent to exist.
And sure, there are a couple ways to reduce these issues through eg. regulation - but crucially, every single one of those ways *goes against* capitalist ideology.
So "making capitalism work" through regulation is a very strange concept; you're "making it work" by removing it from the equation, by actively working against it.
By that point, isn't it just time to acknowledge that capitalism is violent and undesirable?
I did *not* need to be called out this directly this morning by today's Questionable Content strip 😅😭
I collect these. I call them "design in the wild" where end users fix design mistakes on their own. It's a bit shocking how often this happens. Think of how bad it has to be to reach this point. #ux #DesignInTheWild
@grmpyprogrammer That's gonna get very interesting in at least the Netherlands, and probably quite a few other countries, where companies are broadly responsible for all their commercial communications regardless of whether they claim they're not
UK, trans, new NHS GIC pilot in Sussex!
The Sussex Gender Service is now starting up! They're selecting from people who joined a GIC waiting list before a certain date, currently 2023 03 31, and registered with a Sussex GP before then.
It sounds much like the other pilots, happily.
https://www.sussexpartnership.nhs.uk/our-services/specialist-services/sussex-gender-service
re: money, dentist
(This is the dentist in question, in case anyone is curious: https://www.tandartsmazairac.nl/)
money, dentist
It's still really shitty that dental care in NL isn't covered by healthcare insurance in any meaningful way, but I don't have a bad word to say about the local dentist, they've always been fantastic
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.