@elilla Goals tbh
@elilla @IngaLovinde I have both, alternatingly, but I'd still consider myself an introvert. It's not that human interactions *by themselves* are exhausting to me, the exhausting thing is just not having control over the 'when'. Sometimes I need chaos and social stuff, sometimes I need peace and quiet.
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@schratze "Breeze Hell"
@plomlompom My usual heuristic is "are they trying to sell me something, either directly or via affiliate links?" -- if yes, then they are probably not trustworthy.
@maia on works either my own or those of others 🙃
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@kescher In fairness, that demographic matches pretty well with "unwarranted sense of self-importance, and completely oblivious to the fact that they are not actually wanted in most spaces"
Rant about open-source governance
@n0toose@chaos.social The rule of thumb I tend to follow personally is "you owe people what you imply". If you want to provide a no-support-whatsoever service, totally fine, but just be honest about it upfront! And if you are trying to actively convince people to use it, then don't be surprised when people turn out to have the associated expectations...
Starke adbusting Aktion entlang der heutigen Demoroute: "A100 Weiterbau: Mehr Beton, weniger Berlin."
#MobilitätswendeJetzt #autofreieTage #A100Stoppen #b1806
sex work idk
Hi all.
My gf just got shadow-banned from Reddit for doing sex work there (NSFW pictures and commissions of the same), and she really needs to find a safe place online to do that now. I don't know much about that world, but if anyone could help us out that would be really appreciated. ❤️
@DuckForTheDuck Heb ik ook, enige jaar dat ik dit probleem niet had was toen ik een hele winter zonder verwarming gedaan had, blijkbaar helpt dat nogal qua temperatuur reguleren... dagelijkse wisseldouches helpen ook wel een beetje though
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Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.