Trying to find a non desperate way to convey that it's actually ok if you forgot to reply to me for 3 weeks.. I guess it's hard to slice cause it's not like I don't care at all, but I'd probably be ok with any excuses.

Sorry, some guy said the most unhinged shit and I had to throw my phone in the ocean
I converted to buddhism for a month because I was getting nervous ticks whenever my phone went off
what a month~

@rune I usually convey this by saying something like "it's okay if you need some time to think about it" or "it's okay if you have a lot on your mind and need some time to respond" - there may be a hundred reasons why someone is slow to respond but mentioning *any* often-considered-unacceptable reason (even if it's not theirs) as being explicitly acceptable does, in my experience, communicate the broader point that you're not judgmental about it