About stress from things around you
Remember, that you will have physiological reactions to prolonged stress.
That includes things like your safe environment rapidly changing over night and continuing to do so over an extended period of time, even when that environment is online.
Even if it's moving from one place to another, or having other people move into your place.
Please be compassionate with yourself, rest when you need it, and practice listening to your body. ❤️
yesterday someone claiming to be anti-racist followed me on here. i checked out their twitter and found that they block anyone who says Free Palestine. 🙃
#FreePalestine babes
Got to draw some lovely witchy ladies for a recent commission! I'm very happy with how these turned out 💖
fedi anti-Blackness; or, my fellow instance admins, sort your fucking users out
In the replies of new Black folks on here discussing the harassment they’ve faced, and slurs they’ve had thrown at them, I’ve seen white users respond with suggestions that they should move to better moderated instances – I even saw one guy say ‘you should just move to a black instance’. The usual line they take is to (patronizingly) talk about how the protocol lets you move instances, and so you can just find an instance with policies that suit you.
IMO, this behavior is (and should be more widely seen as) anti-Black; users should be reporting it, and instance admins should be banning for it.
Firstly, it shifts the blame for the abuse solely to the recipients – ‘it’s your fault for not picking an appropriate instance!’ It also makes the commenters themselves feel all smart for knowing the ins and outs of the protocol (even when they often have no idea what they’re talking about), which is honestly just annoying as fuck.
Secondly, it sweeps the fedi’s historical + continuing anti-Blackness under the rug by making racist abuse into a technical discussion rather than a cultural one. It serves to assuage the consciences of those making such comments, because they can just point to the safeguards that are *technically* there, allowing them to forego self-reflection.
Cumulatively, the effect of these kinds of comments is to push Black users off the fedi, or onto instances that can be blocked/marginalized/attacked by white users. This is segregation, plain and simple, and it’s absolutely shameful.
SO! Fellow admins, I’m gonna be reporting such behavior + suspending accounts that do it from instances I moderate. I’m gonna encourage users to report this shit too so that I can take action. How about you?
"Listening to Black Women: The Innovation Tech Can't Figure Out"
https://www.wired.com/story/listening-to-black-women-the-innovation-tech-cant-figure-out/amp
Trans rights are human rights.
Black lives matter.
No human is illegal.
Love is love.
Their body, their choice.
Science is real.
Kindness is everything.
P.S. If you started following me due to this post, PLEASE look at my profile and decide if it's for you.
Make sure general nerdiness, tabletop roleplay, and other related pursuits are the kind of content you want to see in your timeline.
Our values obviously align, but our interests/hobbies might not. No hard feelings if you unfollow. 😉
I'm Elfi! I'm a fair folk, magical moth, greyace girl, greenhorn gamedev, in my thirties and , and ADHD+ASD+EDS. Disclosure: white
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