medicine, alc
@welshpixie Personal addendum: remember to take propranolol and/or take a shot to calm your hands
Whoever got mad about people using the term ‘mutual aid’ because they think ‘mutual’ means it needs to be an exact 1-1 transaction missed the point entirely. It doesn’t even need to be about semantics, the point of mutual aid is building up a community in which people can ask for help, and if you don’t need help right now, great! But if/when you do, you have this community you can go to for help. That’s where the ‘mutual’ part comes in
If you want to apologize:
* Do what it takes to understand what you did wrong
* Accept responsibility for it
* Acknowledge that the offence was real, don't minimize the harm or "both-sides" it
* Do not dismiss the offence as a matter of the other party's feelings only
* Say that your conduct was not acceptable
* Remember that your intentions don't excuse you if you hurt someone
* Indicate that you regret it
* Gesture toward moving forward/making things right/making amends
@typhlosion trueeeeeee
@typhlosion (a cute joke though fr <3)
@typhlosion 4/10 everyone knows moths are the ones with good wifi
TIL using an oil diffuser is something you generally shouldn't do if you have a pet as many oils are toxic to them:
https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/blog/are-essential-oils-safe-for-pets/
@deejvalen I have tummy
@Nine I mean, I know people who referred to ircops as "IR cops"
mutual aid request; begpost; trans black gal in need of help
thanks everybody for your continued mutual aid. My posts have been reaching people and donations are coming in and I'm forever grateful for every and each mutual aid of all of you.
I'm still halfway through being able to have my monthly bills covered tho. I can pay the next bills.
so once again I'm begging for some of your time so you can mutual aid me into being able to survive for another month >.<
if you can mutual aid me some boosts or any donations it would be greatly appreciated.
I'm really hoping this next month I can actually start actually earning any money through any of my work so I can at least depend less on mutual aid >.<
https://ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g=52
#mutualAid #transCrowdfund #mutualAidRequest @mutualaid
p.s.: I've updated the ko-fi + spreadsheet for the new USD rate as of now.
@codl this is the most sensible way after all
I'm Elfi! I'm a fair folk, magical moth, greyace girl, greenhorn gamedev, in my thirties and
, and ADHD+ASD+EDS. Disclosure: white
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