@joshix @lea@lea.pet @jessew While that's true from the perspective of someone who *wants* to self-host their stuff, that doesn't do anything for the folks who are dependent on others to run it for them (which is going to be the majority of people even in an ideal world, because most people don't have time or interest to maintain servers).
@joepie91 @lea @jessew a good messenging solution imho needs to be self-hostable in a way that no extern party gets any metadata.