Congratulations to the tildes poster reading through my posts, who completely missed the point of this post, and seemingly interpreted it as evidence that I must be irresponsible and that another commenter was right about that.
Like, you realize that this was a frustrated subtoot *of* that other commenter, right? Have you considered actually doing the introspection I've proposed in the toot? It was not rhetorical.
As a counterweight for the frustrated grumping, though: I'm happy to see that several other commenters are actually making an effort to understand the problem, when it wasn't previously known to them.