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How to pet the dog - a guide 

So one thing I’ve noticed is some people I meet while with my dog don’t know how to pet dogs in a safe way that respects dog and owners boundaries.

So I’m going to make a thread on what to do if you want to pet the dog.

re: PH & gender 

@erosdiscordia I get upset when my thinking feels muddy, too. (estrogen person here) I just don't get, like, aggressively upset. I could maybe see, some testosterone reason for being sick making T folks angry, though.

If a family gets hurt by a predator attack and half the adults go somewhere safer and half the adults get aggressive, you might have a better chance of someone surviving? So like, maybe it's less of a 'this exact reaction' thing than a 'a sex difference makes sense here' kinda thing.

Also, I think people say men are tough/have high pain tolerance because men really like to hear it. Maybe Prarie Home Companion got something right after all. 😛

Most testosterone folks don't need to be down to fuck after the incredible pain of childbirth, so like, there's maybe less of a strong need for that kind of pain tolerance with T? Just a thought.

I hope gibs feels better, though.

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Hi all: this account is in hybernation after #Gab functionally left the #fediverse, but wanted to wake it from slumber to note that all your work got noticed in a new ISD Report.

"There is precedent for open source communities to push back against those who seek to use their tools to promote hate speech. One such case is Mastodon, an open source social media community which has waged a long-running war of attrition against an influx of far-right users from Gab – a war which, as of December 2020, they appear to have won."

isdglobal.org/digital_dispatch

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Everyone is invited to participate in this survey about ability to become pregnant, regardless of gender, sex or trans status. It's open until 5th Oct 2021, and I'll blog the results.

docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAI

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machine learning is amazing because you take a bunch of data you don't have permission to use and a few million matrix multiplications later you can generate the wrong answer to any question

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transphobia 

New Trans lives in the UK survey: transactual.org.uk/trans-lives

99% experienced transphobia on social media
93% said media transphobia [fueled] strangers on the street
57% avoid going to the doctor when sick
63% experienced transphobia while seeking jobs

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@sashakovich @keelancook

I found a copy of the later book, Proverbs of Ancient Sumer. If Otis any indication, it's appropriately rife with filth.

If you can find out where the original tablet lives now, perhaps mentioned in the forward, that would be an amazing lead.

@sam hey, this isn't quite the same thing, but if you weren't aware, cyberia.club has a bunch of similar infrastructure set up.

We're volunteer run, explicitly free, and not a capitalist entity really, but if you're looking for folks to buddy up with, you might be looking for us.

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@cyberia in the context of pseudonym, key and identity management. For example, creating a new pseudonym identity in the system is called "pick a nym", and an public server for pseudonymous users may be called a "nym server".

It came from the original Cypherpunk mailing list in the 90s, there was a huge amount of discussions about privacy and anonymous communications here, thus this shorthand.

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stepping out of my time machine into the Cambrian era with one of those seafood bibs tied around my neck

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I almost forgot woke IKEA Switzerland, which used Blahaj to promote the referendum in favor of the legalization of marriage for gay ppl

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I need to find a good photo management thing.

I have emby for videos and music, kogma for comics, but between me and Felicity we have something like 100 gigs of photos.

I want something I can have on my server at home that has good sorting and management things for bulk photos and be available on the local network. External availability isn't as important.

any suggestions?

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i don't know which is more surprising: that i just managed to spell "acknowledgements" correctly on the first try, or that that's actually how it's spelled

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It revealed that those using wooden cutting boards in their home kitchens were less than half as likely as average to contract salmonellosis, those using synthetic (plastic or glass) cutting boards were about twice as likely as average to contract salmonellosis - and the effect of cleaning the board regularly was not statistically significant.

naturalhandyman.com/iip/infxtr

#theGalley

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Survival Library/Sustainability Library 

Open Access Ebooks for farmers, gardners, community development and more:

From Practical Action

practicalactionpublishing.com/

See also CD3WD, CD's for the 3rd World. This set also also includes ebooks from Practical Action, more books on farming, vocational ed (electronics, carpentry, metal working), offline education for K-12, library of novels for offline use and more.

archive.org/search.php?query=C

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@vanillacherry it's a lot of work, but if you're looking at a group, let them carry stuff. Cyberia was a signal group chat for many months before we were anything else.

We'd love to help if we can, fwiw. Cyberia is much more on matrix than mastodon, but you can see our stuff over at cyberia.club.

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Hey, friends of the Fediverse. Just because I'm curious, what's your eye color?

Boosts appreciated for sample size <3

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Friends, I'm getting serious about sharing my fiction writing, and I'd like to ask for your support.

I've re-launched a Ko-Fi page, as the vibe is much better than Patreon, and planned an entire series of posts and excerpts, and even videos, to share the novels that I'm working on.

ko-fi.com/erosdiscordia

All the posts about my writing process will be free to read, always. But I would also put to good use any donations or memberships you'd like to give, too, especially right now.

Having modern-enough tech to get a work from home job, being able to keep studying IT and infosec (and a language!), even the hosting and domain to start building this fictional world its own online home -- it stays just out of financial reach, and that's frustrating.

Whatever you can spare helps, even $1 a month. And this time, I'm nervously excited to share something with you in return!  :ablobdj:

So if you like queer-centered science fiction and fantasy -- or even if you're just nosy about what my desk looks like this week -- please do stop by.

Boosts are appreciated!

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ohh I had no idea ‘these violent delights have violent ends’ was from Romeo and Juliet

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