@fack I cannot recommend a hand scrub enough for when hands get, like, a layer of dry skin so much that lotion doesn't penetrate.

Here's a random recipe, but really, any salt and any skin safe oil should work (https://www.creeklinehouse.com/diy-gardeners-hand-scrub-mason-jar/). Especially with men, it seems like the salt (or sugar or whatever) really helps the oil penetrate better. I dunno if oily hands are better than slippery ones, though.

If you wanna buy it in a store, any old body scrub should work alright, too, but some of those have a little soap in them to help em wash off, which might not help your situation as much as one with less soap would. I like to get something really thick in a jar, especially if I can see chunks of salt or oil in it.

I also really like whipped cocoa butter for my skin, but since Glazed By Kay is not selling stuff right now, my usual shop won't help ya much. Lol