@deadwitchflying@eldritch.cafe dang, this is ugly. Thanks for your work in drawing attention to this.

I don't wanna be patronizing, so sorry if this comes off that way, but have you gotten some time to take care of yourself a bit in the wake of this crap? I bet you've already got your own coping routines, but after bad moderation vibes, I like to have a snack and something warm to drink (usually herbal tea or hot cocoa) and look at cute animals for a little while until my body calms down. A bath can also be nice. Also, I like to talk it over with friends. If you would like, here is a link to some cats solving a puzzle, I think it is very cute (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZU-MBLePCvQ).

You are worth treating well, even if there are deeply problematic assholes on the internet.

It looks like you might be keen on running your own instance. Do you want any help with that?