@pinkflameinthepan I've also noticed that the people who "tried polyamory" almost always have a really sketchy understanding of how to maintain a relationship (communication, consent, etc.) and well yeah then it's not surprising that adding more of them goes badly... I don't think that's a polyamory problem, friend
@joepie91 yeeeees
Like so many of those people hold polyamory to waaay higher standards than monogamy