What *really* pisses me off about the whole #Matrix situation isn't the problems that they have, it's not the funding model, it's not even them ignoring years of warnings from the community, really.
It's that they seem deathly afraid to ever honestly admit that they've made a serious error in judgment on project governance, and every single thing they put out is PR spin that tries to reframe the situation like circumstances forced them to do these things, like they've done the best they can - when they absolutely fucking didn't.
Like, the whole thing is on the verge of bankrupcy and collapse, and they are *still* spinning bullshit yarns about how that massive matrix.org homeserver was only ever meant as a starting point, when anyone who has looked at the evidence for five minutes would know differently and tons of people warned them of exactly this outcome.
I have had tens, if not hundreds of long discussions with old-guard core Matrix folks and *not once* have they shown willing to admit fault on *literally anything*, it is always someone or something else's fault and solutions are always just around the corner
And yeah I've definitely stopped being polite or friendly about this shit, the people in question have had plenty of opportunity and offers of assistance to turn things around, so now all you get is complaining