re: lewdposting, bondage and praise kink
@mynameistillian Don't know if you've tried it out yet but I've found that my otherwise extremely low pain tolerance can magically be way higher in kinky scenarios
kink, re: lewdposting, bondage and praise kink
@mynameistillian I would definitely recommend trying it out in a kink context with someone else then (someone who understands the situation and will stop if it doesn't work!) and seeing if that's different for you - for me the difference is especially noticeable with spanking, where with some specific muscle tightening and relaxing it really changes how pain-tolerant I end up being.
(This *only* ever works for me in a kink context with someone else. I don't really understand why)