@firn Yeah there's a whole game-theory aspect to this that makes it a Hard Question
@researchfairy @firn I've kind of given up on asking direct questions, and usually just ask "how do you mean?" and look at what they focus on in their answer - if it's only about modes of interaction then it can be A, but if there's even a *hint* of complaining about the ideological part then it's basically always B
@researchfairy @firn (Helpfully, most people who complain about this preempt the question by complaining about ideological factors and thereby picking B before I even have a chance to ask)