And like, I'm not expecting people to take on a million projects at the same time. I just want a place that leaves room for other people to take on other such projects, and that desires to collaborate with them.
The places I'm complaining about here, instead, practically run you out of town for suggesting different things, declaring them "offtopic" or saying that "we can't take on that project" (even though you never asked them to and even explicitly said that you don't expect that).
@joepie91 I'm having a hard time trying to understand what you expect. What happened that moved you to write this? You have any examples and expected behavior?
Open source projects, to name something that fits in your description, usually focus on what maintainers can handle, and that's usually why they shut things that they deem off topic, as it add noise to what they can handle with their limited time and resources.