Someone complaining in a channel that I always "disappear for a while and then only come back to complain" which, even aside from the ableism in that statement in its context, tells me that apparently they expect people to have an opinion on anything regardless of whether they know about the topic, because shutting up on unfamiliar topics is *why* I only talk sporadically.

I don't think that is ever going to be a healthy community for me, and I'm not sure it will ever be healthy for anyone else either.

(If you don't know what channel this is about, then you're not in it)