personal, "smart" 

I really dislike it when people call me "smart" when really I just have a special interest in communication and therefore communicate in a way that a lot of people understand... and people end up mistaking that understanding for "intelligence" on the part of the speaker.

Like, calling me "smart" is not really a compliment, as much as it is an indirect insult to people-who-are-not-me, and I do not think that it is justified

Re: personal, "smart" 

@joepie91 mmh yeah, it's very uncomfortable

And they always view any denial of their statement as like, self hate

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Re: personal, "smart" 

@Ember Exactly! Like, no, this is not self-hate, I just want to see appreciation for what I put effort into, not for what luck I have

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