- Community safety problems not getting addressed by Gargron because they're too busy chasing popularity

- The community therefore having to try and enforce such community safety on a social level due to lacking tools, and then getting yelled at for it because they are somehow held responsible for the problems with the software (that they do not control)

- People translating claims from clueless journalists about what Mastodon is, into expectations from developers or communities to make those claims true

- Privileged folks complaining how it's just *so much work* to be considerate of others, not for a moment considering that maybe they've just been benefiting from an exceptionally easy time on large social media platforms and their current experience is more like what *everyone else* already had to deal with on every other platform

- Impossible-to-follow meta discourse because nobody has bothered to keep track of things in context

- FOSS-bro reply dudes

Not an exhaustive list but honestly probably pretty complete