Twitter, toxicity
Haaaah oops. Opened Twitter (I've been helping people figure out masto so check in now and then for any @-s) and Twitter decided I needed to get shoved in the face with a bunch of angry flapping from that one user I banned for joining and immediately being an asshole at one of our users, and all the comments saying stuff like 'and that admin thinks he's doing a good job' and 'he has an ego problem' and 'he shouldn't be running an art community'
Twitter, toxicity
From everything I've seen from this, I still think that the critique that there should have been a warning instead of an instant ban is fair.
People are allowed to complain to their friends about something they deem unreasonable.
The fact that it happened to a big account just means it could have happened to a small as well.
There is a power dynamic: I feel less confident voicing my opinion in this thread now than on twitter, for instance.
Twitter, toxicity
@Stealcase oh no, they weren't banned for the complaining. I'd seen them talking about the content warnings and that was fine, everyone has a take on the CWs and I'm cool with people talking about it. They were banned for being antagonistic and trolling in reply to a user who was just clarifying, neutrally, a thing about how CWs work. It's in our code of conduct.
Twitter, toxicity
@welshpixie I communicated badly here regarding "complaining". I was talking about their convo on twitter.
I understand it's against your Code of Conduct, I just think banning is a heavy-handed tool. Mastodon accounts are linked to instances, this isn't a reddit server ban. I think warnings are a reasonable response for first-time offences.
I also understand the mod team doesn't have capacity to coddle everyone, but I think this is problematic for a big server with power.
Twitter, toxicity
@Stealcase Well, if it helps at all re. 'big server with power', we had about six thousand people signing up in two weeks and that's the only account we banned for behaviour. It also needn't have been permanent - there's an appeal function attached to each mod action that the user can use to contact us to discuss it. She didn't do that. Looking at her long Spanish thread she made, she had already decided (before the trollish coment) that she wasn't going to stick around anyway.
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@Stealcase @welshpixie Reading the conversation around this over on the Twitter side, I'm frankly unconvinced that a different policy would have helped any here.
Approximately nobody in the replies or QTs has asked for more context about what happened - they're all taking the person at their word that it was "censorship of art". The clarification posted in one of the subthreads by someone else, has been mostly ignored.
This is exactly the "looking for a fight" dynamic that I've seen *so often* on Twitter, where some popular vocal person makes an accusation and all of their followers blindly follow it and start harassing the target, retroactively justifying things as necessary.
IME, you can't do anything against that sort of behaviour. They'll consider *whatever* slight against them to be grounds for harassment, whether it's a (temp) ban or a warning. If they were given a warning, I very much doubt they'd be crying "censorship" any less.
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@Stealcase I don't know whether a reason was specified, as the only available screenshot is incomplete. If it wasn't, then that is a legitimate problem.
However, in this context, I very much doubt it would have mattered - because people who are genuinely confused normally *ask* what the reason is, rather than immediately picking the most contentious reason available and publicizing it. I've seen that pattern *a lot* as a moderator, and it rarely bodes well for their intentions.
And yes, Mastodon is also not entirely free of this sort of thing, and that is a problem. But that's orthogonal to my point - I'm specifically talking about this particular incident.
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@joepie91
From my reading: no reason was specified, since the banned user thought the ban was for "sensitive content", which curator later said wasn't the case.
This incident means something for mastodon .art in general. And what it means is: banning without issuing a warning or reason can and will be used.
-"However, in this context, I very much doubt it would have mattered."
I think it does. This is terrible PR, and creates bad vibes for existing users.
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@Stealcase What I mean with "I doubt it would have mattered" is that the user in question seemed to be actively looking for a fight, and so would likely have responded roughly the same if they got a warning instead of a ban. In other words, it would not make the "terrible PR" go away.
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@joepie91 I doubt that. Just thinking about myself, I wouldn't have cared if they were warned, then infringed multiple times, then banned. I don't even follow her. I care because of the specific circumstances.
Some of the biggest spanish speaking art accounts on twitter have now collectively agreed that the biggest art instance on mastodon is a little authoritarian for their tastes, based on the evidence.
Doesn't feel very inclusive.
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@joepie91 Like, this isn't a kindergarden. This is a mass server, not a small instance, and individuals have blocking tools. If someone has an uncomfortable interaction, its fine to mute, block and move on.
Banning from a server is the nuclear option.
1. It was wielded too freely.
2. Without prior warning (no prior reports).
3. And without stated reason.
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@Stealcase "Just block someone who harasses you" is how you create a toxic environment, and inclusivity is certainly not attained by tolerating abusive behaviour. "Keeping up appearances" is not the goal here.
The rules on that instance are very clearly defined, and they exist for good reason. If you cannot or do not want to understand the concept of community safety, then frankly there is nothing for me to further discuss here.
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@joepie91 I don't feel crazy saying "Someone losing their account" is the nuclear option compared to "these people don't get along, maybe prevent them from interacting".
You can have it both ways. We can ban bad actors with multiple violations, and we can allow people to mute/block/report when they're uncomfortable. Not every human fits together perfectly. I understand the concept of community safety, but its impossible(!) to always feels safe on a server of 25k people.
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@Stealcase It is completely absurd to institute some arbitrary threshold of "multiple violations" as a hard rule, and that only serves to give bad actors more room to be abusive.
It's noticeable how much more concerned you seem to be about the person doing the harassing than about the person being harassed.
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@Stealcase Like, to put not too fine a point on it: suggesting a policy of "multiple warnings before a ban" essentially means "sacrificing the safety of a number of community members for the comfort of a bad-faith actor and keeping up an outside appearance of faux objectivity".
That's basically what you're suggesting here. I would suggest learning more about the moderation culture here, who it is meant to serve (hint: not onlookers on birdsite), and why that culture exists.
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@joepie91 You can't have a monoculture on a site with 25k users. It works fine for your instance, because you know all your users, and they probably trust you. The fact a ban was issued shows the problem of server scale.
Every threshold we can think of is arbitrary. NSFW is arbitrary. We're social creatures, we figure it out.
I think it's possible to NOT nuke accounts with no warning, while still being intolerant to abuse. These ideas aren't ideologically opposed.
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@Stealcase All of those 25k users signed up for that instance by themselves, with clearly defined rules. Those who do not like them, can sign up elsewhere. This is very clearly working fine, and has been for a long time. You are conjuring a problem into existence that doesn't actually exist.
I also have actively moderated communities for many years, and my remaining patience for moderation models that serve abusers (which *particularly* includes legalistic moderation) is firmly at zero. I do not have any interest in further discussing warning policies.
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@joepie91
I understand what you're saying re: enabling abuse. You have more experience in this area than me. My perspective is as a relatively new user, not admin.
But because of my perspective,
I believe that this situation was handled badly in a way that erodes trust and makes the server feel less collective and more authoritarian.
And that the negative effects of this are socially a lot bigger than just 1 person getting banned.
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@Stealcase Again: this is an imaginary problem. This is well-established policy on mastodon.art, it is very specifically *the reason that people are there*. It is not the job of an instance to look good in public; its job is to protect its community. And mastodon.art does so.
That is frankly where the conversation ends. If this does not sit well with you, then that is ultimately *your* problem, and I would once again implore you to learn more about *why* moderation culture is what it is here.
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@joepie91 Alright.
I appreciate your arguments, you've given me some things to think about. Though I wish we'd end up more aligned, people can't agree on everything.
I hope you're right that this is an imaginary problem, and doesn't have any further adverse effects.
Cya around 👋
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@joepie91 Don't you think the fact that the banned person didn't even get a reason for the ban (from their perspective, it was because of a NSFW post) might have contributed to this confusion?
Besides, I've seen plenty of the exact same behaviour you're describing from threads here on Mastodon, taking a friend's statement at their word, etc.
I still stand by my opinion: banning without warning and issuing no reason is bad.