@MacLemon@chaos.social my home network is kind of an issue, although vps-reverse-proxy media caching already helps with that

other than that it's just Synapse... being *bad*, having to leave rooms that cause too much performance issues, disabling presence because it eats a gigantic amount of cpu, etc

and everytime I fix something like that (with help from the Matrix team) it's fine for a while again till the next issue arises, hence not being comfortable offering this service to any extra people :/

let's hope https://conduit.rs is finished soon :')