@dave I've always figured what I didn't see was because of proactive moderation, but that is a tremendously messed up tactic all the same, and puts the harassment that does get posted in public in a much more sickening light. Like a marked difference of people who know what they're doing is wrong, vs. those who go completely mask-off.
Why can't people just trust each other when they say they're suffering abuse? I'm so sick of it.