@professorjordan@wetdry.world Ugh, yeah. I've been in that situation, it fucking sucks.

There's no harm in gathering up the people you're still comfortable with and cutting the rest loose though No harm in continuing to drop anyone who turns out to not be so cool after all.

Took me over a decade after declaring scorched earth on my old sona to come to that conclusion myself, and I only had the opportunity to re-examine it all because I did put some trust in an old friend