Heh someone noticed my pronoun swap yesterday. I've taken a tack of quietly changing it and anyone who notices that's fine and anyone who doesn't or keeps the old ones that's fine too; especially around people who are dirtspace-adjacent where that'd get real weird. Someone in a gaming group noticed and decided to DM vee about it.

This ended in fun nuggets like "We're all for people having identities but we are not going to normalize people calling each other 'it' in our space" and "We do not require you to change your profile but if you stay here we are going to have to make an announcement to the effect of not allowing the usage of 'it' to refer to a person even if it's their preferred pronouns"

So this is what it/its users experience. Got it.