what i mean is in the realm of "we have no higher expectations than hanging out together and having a good time and if we feel like holding hands maybe that's cool too (and then we blog about how we're being gay and on a date) "
tired: we go on a date in the sense that we're thinking about establishing a long term exclusive relationship with the intention of getting married or whatever
wired: we go on a date every now and then just to like hang out and chill