Right.

I realize that screenshots from a pm is usually not done and is downright rude of me. However there are unspecified others being pulled into the conversation, and I do not want to play a game of telephone at the moment.

Let's address the points of the following as best we can.

It is startling news to me that I am an abuser. I admit with humility that I've had some bad times and done some wrong, but I feel like if I had admitted to being a self-professed abuser, I would probably remember. I did point out some abusive behaviors from you which was the crux of at least one of our, eh, spats shall we say.
Is this supposed to be an actual apology? Because I think you have left out the apology bit.
So the next part of this attempt at reconciliation is to... Tell me your friends think I am a bitch, then tell me that you are more enlightened and above those things. Oooookay.
Why should I care about your friends disliking me? The fediverse has a wide array of tools to ensure they won't see my content. And then we both win. It's kind of like how I had you on mute but forgot the check box that says no pms etc either, lol
Your new professed skill of being able to keep yourself from doing things that irritate people is... Interesting.. Given you gave a sulky nonapology with an insult as the next course.
If I'm being honest? It's a bit of an insult too when you finish it with that. I do not know why you think offering no apology, misremembering ....something?? so you can say it is on record I'm a known abuser, telling me how all your friends think I am awful but you are in comparison better at all relationships, throwing in an update about (if i am honest) a user mostly remember vaguely (perhaps also because it is nearly 3am), and you think this is... A good way to ask for me to give you a second chance.

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Nope no thank you I am good thanks. If this is the new leaf you have turned, no thank you, I'm good.

And if I'm honest, I'm being a bitch and replying publicly because this reeks of some "everyone hates you, trust me!" manipulation that's just... Well... Insultingly badly executed, if I am honest. But it is a tactic that relies on secrecy to work. That is a game I am not interested in playing, and one I think everyone should know that you tried such a tactic so they can proceed with a level of caution they deem fit.

In conclusion: good grief, @SoniEx2