@synthgal@solarpunk.moe i was on the both sides of this a year or so ago. it was really calming to figure things out slowly together. life is speeding up now though.
im proud of you for writing your needs so clearly unabscured. that takes a lot.
https://gist.github.com/gcr/47a8f2baaa5810087615b4a858619fe5 is absolutely precious and a goldmine
i'm sorry i can't help much more atm
and it is something that's hard to find