@vultureculture@lesbian.solutions
i'm not sure how much i have to add but i think this is a really important & relatable thing to for me to validate

it reminds me of a post i saw a while ago about an autistic person complaining they keep on getting people crushing on them *because it's their first time talking to another autistic person like them*, thinking it's a Special Bond when it's really just basic recognition. maybe it's something tangential to that for you

they should definitely stop doing that though it's NOT good just because its subversive of some cishet social norms or because trans girls have a lot of shared history that creates deeper bonds

(also, maybe beyond the sexual it's asking for emotional capacity, and they're looping on that, but this is a LOT of speculation and i hope you can talk to them <3)