I think it's cool to be constantly surrounded by horny trans girls and I think it's cool to be hot but I don't like to be treated like a sex object
honestly the common sense part of my brain is saying "we shouldn't even have to be saying this." and yet
I think other people could stand to appreciate my personality more or something. I'm literally so cool and funny why do you care that I'm a switch
I think I'm allowed to be upset about this, too. in fact, I think I have every right to be fucking angry
and god, what the fuck is it with bottoms not giving a shit about consent. of course, not all bottoms. but I'm not talking about them. it really says a lot that they can just say things like "you should do X thing to me 🥺"
how about uhh, who told you that you could say something like that to me. how is this any different from me saying "you should let me do X thing to you." and even if it weren't the same, who told you I was interested. god
in case it's not clear, and for anyone who doesn't know this, the sexual advances usually come after consent. sometimes it's not clear or it's vague and if I'm uncomfortable I'll let you know. but to be a person who knows me, even, and to only ever talk to or about me when you're making some kind of sexual advance is gross
or, well, evidently sometimes I won't let you know because some of my friends fucking do it. I'm going to tell them next time it happens though because I'm so angry by now, it's got to stop
I'm past uncomfortable and past hurt with all this stuff. I'm pissed off
long, thoughts, i hope it helps
@vultureculture
i'm not sure how much i have to add but i think this is a really important & relatable thing to for me to validate
it reminds me of a post i saw a while ago about an autistic person complaining they keep on getting people crushing on them *because it's their first time talking to another autistic person like them*, thinking it's a Special Bond when it's really just basic recognition. maybe it's something tangential to that for you
they should definitely stop doing that though it's NOT good just because its subversive of some cishet social norms or because trans girls have a lot of shared history that creates deeper bonds
(also, maybe beyond the sexual it's asking for emotional capacity, and they're looping on that, but this is a LOT of speculation and i hope you can talk to them <3)
