Okay I'm curious about what folks here use in regards to "transfemme" vs "transfem". If you are transfeminine or could be described by either term (even if you don't like them yourself), I'd appreciate your vote on how you feel about those two options.
Also curious to hear any extra thoughts/distinctions you make, limited poll options (especially without crosstabs!) make it hard to capture everything.
@c9a i like femme because it feels like more of an identity than 'fem' alone (more of an adjective for me) but i write transfem (and pronounce transfemme) because that's shorter to type and /trans/ fem implies more of a certainty in the 'fem' so I don't feel the need to embolden it more in front of queers.