I wanna understand the psychology of the straight women who is obsessed with the concept of gay men. Is it because they’re sick of straight men? Is it because they fetishize gay men? Is it because they feel entitled to what they cannot have? All of the above?
@FirstProgenitor I suspect there may also be a "what is she's not a cis woman?" thing going on.
Before I realized I was nonbinary, I preferred dating people who liked men because, for some reason, I felt more 'seen'. For some mysterious reason that I couldn't figure out. I wonder what that might have been. :P
There's also maybe some toxic privilege stuff happening, or whatever else.
But like, for a lot of people, especially if they look like conventionally attractive young women, the scale on "should I do something about Gender Thing?" is tipped a bit towards "wait a few years until you're too old to easily do Hot Girl Shit, and then check back", IMO.
