@mynameistillian The problem I keep running into in communicating this balance is that those who are already overextending themselves will read such criticism as applying to them long before the "own comfort before all else" target audience does.

I've never been able to find a 'level of intensity' for communicating this that addresses the 'comfort crowd' but not the 'spoons-deficit crowd'... and I'm more and more doubting whether such a level even exists 😕