@futurebird This is a really complicated one to me. On the one hand I don't think "capitalism" is broad enough, for exactly the "missing other cases" reasons you describe. Kyriarchy and terms like it are unfortunately even less widely understood, it seems.
On the other hand, a lot of people don't really seem to have an internal mental 'boundary' between the lemonade stand interpretation and the system-of-control interpretation, frequently accepting the latter under the assumption that it's a necessary counterpart of the former, and I'm not sure how else to communicate the problem with that...