Meownyan fedi 
we uh, have caffeinated and are trying to manifest into being.
Today we need to plan some of the rest of the week, like who to visit if anyone on our way back home. Also figuring out how to cope with being back home on our own..... Yep, this is sure going to be a thing.
Oh anyone have suggestions what to do with stuff that belongs to an ex that you do not want to burn, but also do not like to be reminded of until you can make sure it makes it's way to them?
related, we need to buy a shredder when we get back home, there is some other stuff that needs destroying
unsolicited advice, paper shredders
@helle If it needs to be shredded unrecoverably, beware of hardware store shredders - they just cut it into strips that are trivial to put back together. A crosscut shredder is needed to shred 'properly'. Cheapest non-crap one I know of is the one that Lidl sells online.
