Every time I read articles about infiltration on the left, I really have to wonder why the constant take-away is "trust no one" when the actual lesson should just be "listen to people pointing out abuse, harassment, and bigotry."
We'd get rid of a good chunk of infiltrators (and, more generally and more commonly, bad actors) if we'd actually give a single solitary fuck about any of *that*.
@whatanerd It's extremely telling how *every* time some infiltrator is ousted, you hear like 10+ people going "yeah they were always acting shady, and I tried to point it out, but nobody wanted to listen"
@joepie91 I cannot count how often I want to scream simply because of the amount of times I've literally responded to things with "If you thought there was a problem, why didn't you *do anything*?"
Like even if people aren't listening, make a bigger stand. Leave. Walk. Get out. I have left *so many places* because of that. If they're not taking someone else's safety seriously, then they're not taking *anyone's* safety seriously.
@whatanerd The flipside of that is that those who are most vulnerable to abuse, are often the least in a position to leave :/
@joepie91 I mean, tbh, when it comes to most of these places? Those of us who are most vulnerable to abuse often leave *despite* the lack of position to do so. And that's usually because we're *pushed out* for even trying to do *anything* at all.
@whatanerd Sure, I more mean it from a perspective of "you can't *expect* from those people to do that, in a 'taking a stance' sense".
Ultimately the responsibility for the problem lies with the abusive individuals and those shielding them.
@whatanerd I broadly agree with you. But please do keep in mind that voluntary and organising spaces are not always voluntary for everybody, even if they're not workplaces - a lot of people are dependent on them for their social support net.