@kat well, when it's in other peoples' hands, best thing you can do is get them to take the steps by lighting fires under their asses
Be that squeaky wheel! idk if that means anything but I'm kind of messed up from oxycodone
@elfi it's more that i'm just too ugly to be trans tbh haha
@kat nah ur cute, and there are folks out there who can help you bring that out, don't be afraid to ask
@elfi i don't know anyone like that
@elfi it just feels like i haven't made progress in years and i'm never going to get any further than i am now