Question to SFF reading people: can anyone think of a male author who's written gender-expansive settings and/or major recurring characters - really *engaging* with gender as a flexible concept?
eg works by Ursula Le Guin, Mary Gentle, or even characters in settings by Lois McMaster Bujold or Martha Wells... have any men written equivalent stuff that distinctly engages with non-binaristic gender?
I know they must have, but my brain's just not supplying names & examples.
Tonight the Emperor Norton Coffee Hour returns to the #CircusInPlace video chat!
For the new kids, it's an hour where us clowns get to have a coffee with internet friends before diving into an entire night of circus skills training.
Join us starting at 7PM UTC-5, and hang around all night as I practice juggling, handstands, and other gravity defying nonsense.
https://meet.jit.si/circushomegym
As always, I'm incredibly grateful for the company.
about the current harassment wave, boost for awareness
I have started using this metaphor when recommending friends to use it.
The metaphor extends to the available feeds:
'Home': chat w/ my friends circle, including neighbors and visitors you invited in.
'Local': building party, hang w/ neighbors.
'Federated': take a walk down the street, see weird stuff, chat w/ random strangers, but keep your guard up.
Of course, it's not a perfect match, but I think it quickly conveys the social experience and trade-offs between different instances.
Reasonable Colors is an open-source colour system for making accessible colour palettes.
It uses an intuitive system of shades to help you select colours which meet the appropriate WCAG contrast rating, even if you're mixing and matching base colours:
https://reasonable.work/colors/
#opensource #design #ui #uidesign #color #colour #accessibility
Hi uh, catarot is up and working, I guess. If you're into wireless receipt printers that look like cats printing out tarot readings.
https://git.cyberia.club/starless/catarot
I haven't done much doc work for it, and likely won't. The original branch is https://github.com/rbaron/catprinter.
A common piece of advice about visual descriptions is to do them like you're describing for a friend on the phone with you. Well, by the time you've gone through the color of someone's hair, sweater, pants, and counted the number of their eyelashes, your poor friend has gone to sleep or hung up! Come on, is that what REALLY gives you the feels about someone you're looking at? How about the fact that they're wearing a torn shirt that reads "fuck the cops, and not in a fun way?" That they smell like the ocean and flowers? That they LOOK like they'd smell like the ocean and flowers, and fuck if you know what you mean by that but it's true in that moment so live with it? You'll make your friend laugh at your ridiculousness and love you all that more for the goof you are (or block your number, idk), isn't that so much more fun than blue sweaters and green pants?
Friday, 15th April, 2022
Here are four talented artists you may want to follow.
@_crystal_dreams
https://mastodon.social/@_crystal_dreams/108086071184227455
@Larn_draws
https://mastodon.art/@Larn_draws/108081532408422320
@Redundantz
https://mastodon.art/@Redundantz/108082531689596842
@polterink
https://mastodon.art/@polterink/108062204546025948
Life update, work, mildly stressful things but fine
New job and partner things are taking up a lot of brain space, so I haven't been on as much.
New job is going well. I just had the healthiest, most lively pr the other day and it really underscored how unhelpful the feedback I got at my last place was.
Partner is moving out from an unhealthy living situation this week and has a pretty major surgery next week. I'm helping out.
I'm stressed but okay. Things should settle a bit soon.
I think the most important thing I can say is:
If there are kids/teens close in your life that might be Having Gender Feelings, or have expressed that they're trans -- acceptance is good but not remotely enough. Don't just be 'cool' about it. You need to be actively loving and supportive. Because they are trying so so hard, and being met with casual acceptance may be less than they need even if they don't know it. They are dealing with grief, and fear, and confusion, and new joy, and so, so vulnerable. Talk about that with them.
The Unicorn Express is a (U.S-based) community-supported effort established in response to the widespread banning of books that are written by LGBTQ+ authors, feature LGBTQ+ storylines, and/or discuss gender and sexuality. The Unicorn Express sends free LGBTQ+ titles by mail to LGBTQ+ youth living in states and/or districts where bans have been put in place.
Use the links below to request books or support our efforts.
xo, the unicorns
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1scQKIx7w8pgSEdLPqJYwlhcQh-r9lHtK0__hHs1yuJE/edit
Food, gifts, children/babies, weird
For the holidays a friend of mine was given a bag of tiny plastic babies. This bag of babies has now drifted amongst the bachelors for the last few months.
Today, they're discussing making pastries together and it took me a little while to realize that they're optimizing baked good recipes for hiding plastic babies in.
I love my friends.
Help with COVID-19 vaccinations and testing for people with disabilities
"The Disability Information and Access Line (DIAL) is available to help people with disabilities get vaccinated and access COVID-19 tests. The DIAL's trained staff is standing by to:
— Help find local vaccination locations
— Assist with making vaccination appointments
— Help connect to available testing options, including help with ordering free at-home test kits through the program announced by the White House on January 14.
— Connect callers to local services – such as accessible transportation – to overcome barriers to vaccination and testing.
Call 888-677-1199 Monday-Friday from 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. (Eastern)
or email DIAL@usaginganddisability.org "
https://acl.gov/DIAL?fbclid=IwAR38NAznvab3WDbLw9S_b_X59Dnxjyno6v68-RDcFQAyLAUsfjhiRSUtX38
Join the clowns in #CircusInPlace as they start another week of acrobatic training. You'll get to see some cool stuff, and we'll be grateful for the company.
It's a weird-win and a win-win. Possibly a weird-weird too.
The fun starts at 8pm UTC-6, and runs all night:
i like kind machines. pro-people-not-dying. anti-nazi. anti-colonizer. pagan, but lazy about it.
I am #HardOfHearing, #nonbinary, polyamourous, into ttrpgs and #tech. Hobbyist #leatherworker, hobbyist scifi author, community builder, and artist.
I like to build #whimsical things that help people to #dream better and form meaningful connections. If you wanna hang out with friendly computer weirdos in Minneapolis, lemme know.
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