Another frustration (unrelated to capitalism this time): if you *already* have a habit of taking into account diverse viewpoints, and have been doing so for years, and have formed a nuanced conclusion based on that... then any one person expressing disagreement is unlikely to change that conclusion, as their concern has probably already come up in your considerations and has already been accounted for.
But to an external observer, this is nearly indistinguishable from "they have rigid beliefs, never listen to others, and believe they are always right".
I don't know what the solution to this is. I'm not sure there is one.
More experienced folks can usually distinguish between the two by looking at how someone responds to feedback (eg. personally defensively, vs. saying "I have already considered that"), but that clearly doesn't magically scale to "interpersonal communication between any two arbitrary people".
So yeah, no idea.
@joepie91 and that's also not always an honest signal- it's quite possible to go "yeah i already thought of that and (rebuttal I made up on the spot" regardless of its truth