If people say that they rely on advertising money, feel free to remind them that you don’t owe them a working business model
hello fediverse
this is an emergency
i have been battling with this issue for three days now and i feel like i have no other options
so i logged into my paypal 3 days ago and i saw that my debit card that i have been using for a long time to transfer money from my paypal...is no longer "eligible" and disappeared from my available transfer options. it's marked as non-eligible.
i have added other cards i own and they are not eligible either. i talked to tech support and they gave me nothing. i talked to my bank and they said that the problem is most likely on paypal's end since their cards were always eligible for transfers from paypal. i want to give up.
does anybody have a single idea how to help me? i have money stuck on my paypal, and if i won't be able to retrieve it, well. i am fucked i guess.
or, at the very least, please tell me other methods for me to gather money in my mutual aid posts because i have been posting my paypal and kofi links and this is not going to work anymore i guess.
(obligatory P.S. - stripe is not working in my country)
please boost
UPD: thank you everybody!!! i contacted the staff on paypal and they fixed it!!! thank you all so so so so much for cooperating and boosting this, I really appreciate it. I'm glad I can rely on you all
not that everyone's perfect at communication all the time or whatever
but the intention is so part of queer culture that even people for whom conflict resolution doesn't come naturally are expected to LEARN
when contrasted with the heteronormative expectations of pushing down feelings, passive aggression, defensiveness, deflection, and blame - this is the most indescribably beautiful and valuable thing
I will never stop being grateful for this community and the different and genuinely *better* norms we've established within it
universeodon admin losing his fucking marbles
If you want a summary of why universeodon should not be trusted (any longer), open this in your browser and check out the discussion and the admin's replies
https://universeodon.com/@supernovae/110616822513314024
some of the slipperiest darvo and misinfo i've ever seen, and that's really saying something; kudos to @SallyStrange for repeatedly calling it out, i wouldn't have had the fucking patience
the admin seems to think he's being cool-headed and reasonable but he seems to actually just be in denial and asleep at the wheel
A friend of mine in SE Alabama spotted this while delivering an Instacart order. She was pleasantly surprised to see it and wanted to share. It’s awesome to behold.
Edit: door dash not IC (my mistake, I believe she has done both).
R is delighted that this pic has been shown so much love, but wants to acknowledge the bravery of the person who put it outside their home.
A new RFC, about "Maintaining Robust Protocols". The original draft was titled "Postel was wrong", because Martin Thomson wanted to outline that "being tolerant with what you receive" leads to protocols drifting away from the standards, to the benefit of the largest "deviant". But this was too provocative. The final text is much milder.
This update was actually quite a while ago, I just needed to update now because of the old tree-sitter-nix version having a dependency on a native tree-sitter module that doesn't work with newer Node versions
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
- No alt text (request) = no boost.
- Boosts OK for all boostable posts.
- DMs are open.
- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
- The devil doesn't need an advocate; no combative arguing in my mentions.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.